Kubva vachiri vadiki, vakomana nevasikana vanotevedzera maitiro, mabasa uye fungidziro dzevakadzi dzavanoona dzakavakomberedza. Matauriro akadai sokuti “vakomana havachemi” kana kuti “vasikana vanofanira kuva vakapfava” kunoramba kuri rutivi rwenzanga yedu, kuchikurudzira misiyano inogona kutungamirira mukusaenzana uye mafungire ezvepabonde mune ramangwana.
Izvo zvakakosha kudzidzisa kubva kumba uye kuchikoro mune zvakakosha zve kuenzana, kuremekedza y equity, kudzivisa kusimbisa mafungiro anokuvadza. Muchikamu chino tinokupa mazano anoshanda e Kudzivirira machismo muvana uye kukurudzira dzidzo inoenderana nekuenzana kwevanhukadzi.
Sei zvakakosha kubvisa machismo kubva paudiki?
Machismo idambudziko remagariro rinotapurirwa kubva kuchizvarwa kuenda kune chimwe chizvarwa. Vana vanokurira munzvimbo dzinochengeterwa hunhu uhu vanogona kuzvidzokorora muhupenyu hwavo hwevakuru, vachisimbisa kusaenzana kwevakadzi uye kukurudzira rusarura.
Maererano neWorld Health Organization (WHO), vana vakabatwa mhirizhonga mudzimba uye zviyero zve murume kana mukadzi akaomarara vanowanzoita zvechisimba kana kupembedza mhirizhonga muhukama hwavo hwemangwana. Kune rumwe rutivi, vasikana vakagara munzvimbo dzepabonde vanogona kugadzirisa kusaenzana uye kuzviisa pasi.
Kubvisa machismo kubva paudiki kwakakosha pakuvaka nzanga inosanganisirwa. zvakanaka y equitable. Kudzidzisana mukuenzana uye kuremekedzana hakungobatsiri chete mukubviswa kwemhirizhonga pakati pevarume nevakadzi, asiwo kunobvumira vakomana nevasikana kukudziridza kugona kwavo kuzere pasina zvirambidzo zvinoiswa nemafungiro.
Makiyi ekudzidzisa mukuenzana uye kudzivirira kuita zvepabonde muvana
1. Mubvunzo stereotypes yevakadzi
Rimwe rematanho ekutanga ekudzivisa kuita zvepabonde muvana kubvunza mabasa akaiswa uye stereotypes. Kuvadzidzisa kuti hapana zviitwa, mavara kana maprofessionals ari ega kune murume kana murume zvakakosha.
- Vabvumire kuti vatambe nemhando ipi zvayo yechitoyi zvisinei nekuti murume kana mukadzi.
- Kurudzirai kusarudzwa kwembatya pasina kuisa mitemo zvichibva pamunhukadzi.
- Dzivisa kutaura kwakadai sokuti “hazvisi zvevasikana” kana kuti “vakomana havadaro.”
2. Kurudzira kutaura kwemanzwiro muvana
Machismo inokanganisawo nzira iyo vana vanodzidza nayo kutaura manzwiro avo. Nepo vasikana vanobvumirwa kuchema y taura nezvemanzwiro ako, vana vanowanzokurudzirwa kuti vave vakasimba uye vanovanza kusagona kwavo.
- Kurudzira vana kuti vataure manzwiro avo asingatyi kutongwa.
- Inokurudzira nhaurirano yakasununguka pamusoro pemanzwiro uye hukama hwevanhu.
- Ramba mashoko okuti “varume havachemi” kana kuti “musava nesimba.”
3. Kurudzira kugoverwa kwakaenzana kwemabasa kumba
Kubva vachiri vadiki zvakakosha kuti vakomana nevasikana vatore chikamu mazviri mabasa emumba, pasina kugovera mabasa zvichienderana nevarume.
- Vadzidzisei kuti kubika, kutsvaira nekuchengeta musha ndizvo basa remunhu wese.
- Iva nechokwadi chekuti vakomana nevasikana vanotora chikamu mumabasa epamba mamwe chete.
- Rega kusimbisa pfungwa yekuti mamwe mabasa anoenderana nemurume mumwe chete.
4. Isai muenzaniso nemafungiro akaenzana
Vana vanodzidza nekutevedzera, saka zvakakosha kuti vanhu vakuru vaite navo kubatana uye kusimbisa kukosha kwekuenzana kumba.
- Govera mabasa mukati memba zvakaenzana.
- Ratidza ruremekedzo netsigiro pakati pemitezo yemhuri.
- Dzivisa kutaura kana mafungiro sexist muhupenyu hwezuva nezuva.
5. Sarudza varaidzo inosimbisa kuenzana
Mafirimu, nyaya uye zvirongwa zveterevhizheni zvinowanzosimbisa zvechikadzi stereotypes. Zvakakosha kupa dzimwe nzira dzinokurudzira kusiyana uye kuenzana.
- Sarudza nyaya nemafirimu ane mavara akasiyana echikadzi neachirume.
- Kurudzirai kuverenga nyaya kune mabasa echikadzi equitable.
- Taura nevana nezve mameseji avanofambisa vezvenhau.
6. Kurudzira hukama hwakavakirwa pakuremekedzana
Kubva paudiki, zvakakosha kuti vakomana nevasikana vadzidze kuti vanhu vese vanokodzera kuremekedza, pasinei nokuti munhukadzi.
- Isai ruremekedzo kune vamwe mukudyidzana kwezuva nezuva.
- Simbisa pfungwa yokuti hapana ane kodzero kumanikidza kuda kwemunhu pamusoro pevamwe.
- Kurudzira kunzwira tsitsi uye kutaurirana kwakasimba kumba uye kuchikoro.
Kudzidzisa mukuenzana kwevakadzi hakungobatsiri chete mukuparadza machismo, asi zvakare kunobvumira vakomana nevasikana kukura munzvimbo ine hutano, isina rusaruro uye mikana mikuru. Kushandisa mazano aya zuva nezuva kuchaita mutsauko mukusimudza zvizvarwa zvinotevera zvichibva pakuremekedza, kuenzana uye kururamisira.
