Hunhu hwemunhu wega wega hwakasiyana zvakanyanya, mumwe nemumwe anoita nenzira yakatarisana kana atarisana nemamiriro akafanana. Kunzwisisa kuri kugona kwehupenyu kurarama kuona shanduko uye zvinokurudzira kuburikidza nepfungwa. Asi havazi vanhu vese vanofarira mwero wakaenzana wekunzwisisa. Vamwe vanhu vanoita nenzira isinganzwisisike yekukurudzira.
Pane kudaro, pane zvishoma-zvinozivikanwa hunhu hunotsanangura vanhu vanoona izvo zvakafanana zvinokurudzira padanho repamusoro. Hunhu uhu ndiko kushevedzwa kwe Yakakwirira Kunzwisisa Vanhu uye inokanganisa 20% yevagari vepasi.
Chii chinonzi High Sensitivity People trait (PAS)?
Vanhu vane hunhu hwe Kunzwisisa kukuru, vane nhevedzano ye kunyanya mune yako neuro-sensory system. Rudzi urwu rwehunhu hunofunga kuti munhu anazvo anogamuchira zvinokuchidzira uye nekuona nenzira yakasimukira.
Hunhu uhu hunoratidzwa nesainzi uye hune hunhu chaihwo hunobatsira kuongorora munhu ane hunyoro hwakanyanya (PAS). Hunhu uhu ndihwo:
- Unyanzvi hwakasimba hwekuona zvinokurudzira inogamuchirwa kubva kunharaunda. Ivo vanogona kunhonga pane ruzivo uye quirks izvo vanhu vane avhareji senzwi havawanzo kutora pamusoro.
- Gadzirisa pfungwa uye mamiriro ezvinhu mune zvakanyanya kusimba uye kwakadzika nzira.
- Tsika yekuzviparadzanisa nevamwe inogadzirwa nekuwedzeredza-kukurudzira, kwakanyanya kuona kunogona kukonzeresa kupera simba kwemuviri uye kwepamoyo.
- Una hukuru hukuru hwekunzwa tsitsi. Ivo vanhu vanotsigira kwazvo uye vane tsika yekugara vachizviisa munzvimbo yemumwe munhu.
Kushushikana Kwakanyanya Kunobata Vanamai
Hweamai kutenderera kunodzika kwekunzwa uye manzwiro. Hormonal shanduko dzinoita basa rakakosha kwazvo, asi iro rinotungamira rinotorwa nekurera. Kuchengetwa kwemucheche uye rudo rwakafashukira urwo dzimwe nguva runogona kudzikamisa. Manzwiro aamai anokanganisa kukura uye kukura yevana. Nenzira dzakawanda zvakanaka, asi zvakare zvisina kunaka.
Hunhu hwemadzimai ane hunyoro hwakanyanya ndeaya:
- Meya kukanganisa kusavapo kwenguva pachako. Mwana anogara nguva dzese nenzvimbo yese, kunyanya kuna amai, zvirinani mumwedzi yekutanga. Amai vane hanya zvakanyanya vanopomera kurasikirwa kwenzvimbo yavo, kuzvimiririra.
- Kudzikama kwe vaviri vacho vanodzadzarika. Kazhinji, vanababa nanamai vane misiyano kana zvasvika pakurera vana. Vanamai vane hanya zvakanyanya vanogona kuzara uye nekudaro kuzviparadzanisa, kugona kwavo kukuru kwekuratidzira kunogona kukonzera amai kuti vatame kubva kune vaviri vacho.
- Kusakwanisa kutsungirirakumanikidzwa kwenzanga. Iyo nharaunda izere nevanhu avo, vaine chinangwa chakanaka kana chakaipa, vanogara vachitaura nezvekuti amai vanofanira kuva sei. Uku kumanikidzwa kwenzvimbo kuve amai vakanyanya kunogona kuve kwakanyanya kune amai vane hanya.
Hunhu hwakanaka hwevanaamai vane hunyoro hwakanyanya
Imwe yemabhenefiti akakurisa ekurarama amai nehunhu hwekunzwisisa kukuru kunzwira tsitsi. Hunhu uhwu hunokubatsira kuti unzwisise zvirinani mwana wako mune mamwe maitiro ekukura aachazorarama muhupenyu hwake hwese. Kunzwisisa kukuru kunopa vanhu vane iko kugona kuona hunyanzvi nemumhanzi uine manzwiro inokosha. Hunhu hwakakosha kwazvo hwekuziva, kugadzira, hunyanzvi uye kukura kwevana.
Amai huzere nemanzwiro uye nemanzwiro, zvese zvakanaka nezvakaipa. Maitiro ako uye maitiro ako nemaitiro ehupenyu mamiriro anopfuudzwa kuvana. Asi kukwirira kwekushushikana hakufanirwe kukanganisa Kukura kwevana vako neimwe nzira.
Nekudaro, sezvatakambotaura pakutanga, chete makumi maviri muzana yevagari venyika vane (PAS) vakaonekwa. Izvi zvinoreva kuti vaviri chete pavanhu gumi vane hunhu uhu. Kana iwe uchifunga kuti nekuda kwehunhu hwako iwe unokwanisa kukwana mune iyi mhando yehunhu, uchafanirwa kuita akateedzana e bvunzo dzekukubatsira kuona.