Kusiyana pabonde, riini uye sei kuzvitsanangurira mwana wako

Kana kutaura nezve bonde pakati pevabereki nevana yatove nyaya inonetsa, kutaura uchiwedzera kune kusiyana pabonde zvinogona kutonyanya kudaro. Zviri nani kuzviita na zvakasununguka, munzira yepasirese uye inosanganisa iyo iyo mwana anonzwa kuti kuda kwavo kwave kugutswa. Kana paine chimwe chinhu chinoramba chichindishamisa, iko kugona "kusapa kukosha" kune zvese izvo kune vanhu vakuru zvakaremerwa nekusarura.

Chinonyanya kukosha ndechekuti rega vana vataure vakasununguka kusahadzika kwavo, zvinovanetsa, uye kwete kugadzira mazano ezvakanaka kana zvisizvo maererano nemitezo yebonde.

Mbudzi 8, Intersex Solidarity Zuva

Nhasi Mbudzi 8 izuva reIntersex Solidarity Zuva, uye kuti tikwanise kuzvitsanangura zvakanaka kuvana vedu tinoda kukupai zvishoma pfungwa. Munhu anoonekwa se intersex kana akazvarwa aine mubatanidzwa wechirume neechikadzi hunhu hunhu. Vanachiremba havagone kukupa iwe murume kana mukadzi mukadzi. Uku ndiko kushanduka kunoitika zvakasikwa muvanhu, harisi dambudziko rekurapa. Uye zvakajairika kupfuura zvaunofunga.

Pamberi apo pakazvarwa mwana intersex, chiremba nemhuri vakasarudza murume uye vakamusimudza sekunge ndewechikadzi, mumabasa iwayo, angave ari murume kana mukadzi. Dzimwe nguva, Zvakaitika kuti hunhu hwakasarudzwa nevemhuri nachiremba hwakanga husingaenderane nehunhu hwavo. Izvo mukufamba kwenguva zvakakonzera zvakakomba zvitupa.

Chii chinonzi kusiyana pabonde kana kuzivikanwa kwechikadzi?

Ndinofanira kureurura kuti ndaifanira kugadzirira chidzidzo. Uye ibate zvine hanya, nekuti chimwe chinhu mutsauko wepabonde uye chimwe kuzivikanwa kwechikadzi. Sekusiyana kwepabonde tinonzwisisa iyo zvepabonde iyo munhu mumwe nemumwe anayo. Ndeipi bonde yaunokwezva. Kazhinji, inorondedzerwa se:

  • heterosexuality: vanhu vanokwezva kune vakomana kana vasikana.
  • ungochani: vanhu vanokwezva kune mumwe murume bonde.
  • bisexuality: vanhu vanokwezva kune vese varume kana vakadzi.

Pane kudaro iyo Kuzivikanwa kwevakadzi kunonyanya kuve kweiye munhu wega wega ane murume kana mukadzi. Ipapo inotaura nezve:

  • Cisgender: Ndivo vanhu vanogutsikana nehutano hwavo hwepabonde. Kunze kwevaya vanovakwezva pabonde, vanozvibata zvinoenderana nehunhu hwakabatana.
  • Transgender: Ivo vanhu vasinga zive nehunhu hwavakazvarirwa. Ndokunge, ivo havarambe bonde ravo rekubereka, asi vanonzwa vachizivikanwa nepfungwa nevakomana kana vasikana. Naizvozvo ivo vanoratidza sevanhu veimwe bonde, asi chengetedza yavo panyama bonde.
  • Transsexourse: Ivo vanhu vasinga zive nechunhu pabonde uye vanoenda kunovhiya uye / kana kupindira kwehomoni kuchichinja.
  • Chechitatu chechikadzi kana wepabonde: Iri izwi rinoreva vanhu vasingakwanise kuverengerwa semurume kana mukadzi.

Isu tinonzwisisa kuti uyu musoro wenyaya, asi rangarira kuti mwana ari pakati pemakore matanhatu neatanhatu ane akanyanya "akajairika" maonero ehupenyu. Chokwadi haazovhundutswa newaanodzidza naye akapfeka semusikana, kana vakuru vaviri vachitsvoda.

Ngano uye nyaya dzevana vanobata nekusiyana

Vamwe mabhuku evana uye nyaya dzaunogona kushandisa senge chidzidzo chekudzidzisa kutsanangurira vana vako kuti zvakasiyana pabonde ndezvei. Ivo vatove vaviri vekare Nyaya yaAitor, uyo anaamai vaviri; kana iyo yaPrincess Li, uyo anosiya muchato wake kumuchinda nekuda kwake anodikanwa Beatrice. Nyaya mbiri idzi dzinomisikidza nyaya dzerudo pakati pevakadzi.

Kune mamwe mazita anoverengwa nyaya dzevana (vakomana) vanofarira kupfeka semadzimambo, kana kupfeka hembe dzaamai… ndiyo Iyo Adventures yeTulipan. Kana vasikana vanonzwa kunge vana vakaita saCua de Sirena. Soy Jazz inotaura nyaya yechokwadi, yakaudzwa mumunhu wekutanga wemusikana uyo kubva pazera remakore maviri ainzwa senge, kunyangwe kumba vakamuudza kuti aive mukomana.

Tinovimba takubatsira, kana zvakadaro kana iwe uchida kuziva zvakawanda nezvenyaya iyi unogona kubvunza chiremba wezvepfungwa kana muchikoro chimwe chete chemukomana kana musikana ivo vachakutungamira pane zvimwe zvinhu. Pano Isu tinokusiirawo iwe chinyorwa iwe chaunogona kubvunza.


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